Had a talk with one of my besties over dinner. Shared views over the many things I'll be facing. The topic of preferred choice, available choice and dealing with things that come head on was discussed.
Some things are never meant to be dealt with lightly. Neither are some things meant to be overly dealt with. Being thrifty does not equate to being stingy. We should try to look at the positives of everything that happens. This is an ideal method of looking at situations that happen to us.
A blast from the heart can be positive as that is where we will learn to express ourselves and be heard. This is a human aspect that we have to look at. At times, quarrels and squabbles are unavoidable. We learn to look at the points where we can learn from. Some issues are best forgiven, though the truth is some issues cannot be forgotten.
That is how we learn to understand our partners. Compromising is a must in order to uphold a relationship. Each of us has our very own flaws that we should work towards correcting.
One thing we have to bear in mind, it does not mean 2 perfectly good humans make a good relationship. And also, if God wants you to be together, you will, no matter what it takes. Never give up on the one that you want.
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